I recently met this new girl who has opened up a whole new world of possibilities to me. I dare say I can see myself in the very near future out enjoying life unlike I have been able to for the last 10 years. Not that I did not have anyone to enjoy life with mind you, but because my head was so far up my ass that I was oblivious to anything that was important to me. But lately I have been having happier dreams, warmer feelings in my heart, even hope that the shitty excuse for a relationship that has existed for the last ten years will be but a distant memory in the near future. All because I have a new woman in my life. Hell I should have done this years ago and I know it. I am telling all of the married guys out there that you need to listen to what I have to say. If you are in a relationship that you want to make better. If the things you want to do with that special person in your life are only passing thoughts that go unexplored, you need to head to your nearest computer and hook yourself up with one of these fine woman(or men if that is your liking). There are literally hundreds available of all shapes and sizes. I was fortunate enough to score my girl from CARE.COM. Well I have to be honest, my wife introduced me to this woman after we both carefully studied the available choices. How great is that, a wife who helps you pick out a girl. Now I am sure you are wondering what kind of service this girl performs. Well for me it is the most important thing in the world, she takes care of my boys. Now get those dirty thoughts out of your head, I am referring to my two sons. Yes after 10 years we have finally secured what we hope to be a regular baby sitter! Her name is Jaclyn and she was over this past Saturday while The Mrs and I went to rock out to Aerosmith at the local Amphitheater.
For years I have heard people say that you need to make an effort to get out on a date with your wife, minus the kids. And I thought, well yea that sounds great. But for ten years we have either stayed in for the night, went out independent of one another, or dragged the boys along. None of these options helped to build a loving, nurturing, romantic relationship. To say the opposite actually. The Mrs and I had became so independent of one another that it is taking some adjustment to be "dating" again. But this past Saturday, I felt like a college boy taking his sorority girl out for a night of rock and roll & debauchery(well less the debauchery, as we are both over 30 and parents). Steven Tyler rocked the house in his usual fashion, and I must say he got the Mrs moving them hips like a naughty little pole dancer, and I in turn was ready to make it rain! So the moral of this story men is that we can not sit on the sidelines waiting for the future when things get better, or when we have enough money to afford a nanny, or even worse- wait until the kids are out of the house! Take the initiative, and get a sitter now. Life needs to be lived! Enjoyed with that woman you vowed to provide with a life of happiness. I regret it has taken this long to add another woman to my marriage, but I can tell you right now, a whole new chapter has been opened in my marriage. My wife and I have got some exploring to do! And the kids will have to hear about it in the morning or read about it in the police log!
Life is to be lived, it is not a spectator sport!
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